By John H. Palmer

As I sit here on a calm Sunday morning writing this column, I have but one thought: Enjoy the peace and quiet while you can, because that’s about to change.

Indeed, this week promises to be a long one, as many of you will be alongside us reporters as Westport makes its way through a long series of meetings regarding the Hamlet development and the Long Lots Elementary School project.

I’m going to make my column this week short and sweet, and I’m staying neutral to the various sides of these constantly evolving stories.

My inbox has been swamped with emails this week, ranging from accusations of illegal meetings of the Long Lots Building Committee to nefarious spiral-bound financial documents that the Board of Finance has reportedly been hiding from the public.

I was sent an apparent copy of the state grant application, a copy of which was inadvertently left behind on a table, which someone swiped Tom Cruise-style as in one of the “Mission Impossible” movies.

I’ve also been seeing a lot of nasty finger pointing, and that’s got me feeling a little on the downside. For the record, calling people names, swearing at them, and using threatening language doesn’t impress me as an editor, and it won’t get you into the comments section of our stories any faster. It certainly won’t make me want to include you in one of our stories.

As I’ve noted before, I spent about 10 years of my life teaching school, ranging from elementary age students to high schoolers, and it’s a shame that I feel like I’m back in the classroom, needing to scold and remind grown adults to play nicely in the sandbox.

Thankfully, these people are the exception rather than the masses. We need to be reminded that we live in a town full of educated, tolerant, and well-meaning people who just want the best for their kids and that’s why so many heated opinions have come out as Westport prepares to authorize the expenditure of $108 million, as of the last reports I’ve heard.

My colleague Gretchen Webster this week covered a meeting of TEAM, the town’s committee on diversity, equity, and inclusion, as town officials and advocates gathered together to share some local stories of hate crimes, while brainstorming ways to educate the public and bringing to light some resources available to help bring a stop to those incidents.

We need to remember that we are all neighbors sharing space

The Long Lots school is going to cost a lot of money, probably the most that the town has ever spent on a capital improvement project. The need for oversight and public scrutiny is paramount, and that’s why there is a public process with the opportunity for public hearings, and yes, editorial comments in the newspaper, as long as they are done tastefully and with respect.

This is what I love about community journalism. For all of the hours spent covering late-night meetings, and weekends spent puttering through emails, there is something warming to my heart about watching the process of an important civil discourse making its way through the various steps to get to the final completed project.

But I want us to ultimately come out with a beautiful new school that we all can live with, and for that matter a Hamlet development that will look good, bring prosperous businesses and delicious new restaurants to town, and maybe not increase traffic to the point where we’re Boston.

I also want us to survive at the end of the process, as a town, as a society, as a people who need to continue to live and work together.

Let’s all take a deep breath and get this done.

John Palmer, a Norwalk native, is editor of the Westport Journal, and has covered community news in Fairfield County and Massachusetts for over 30 years. He can be contacted at jpalmer@westportjournal.com.